I have met thousands of clients in my psychic career all wanting the best out of their reading, if you’re honest and genuine with people and not looking just to make people happy then it’s about working with their expectations.
I recently did a phone reading for a women who asked if she would meet someone else or should she wait for the man in question, psychic intuitions told me this man was long gone and had little intention of returning to her life, in a pretty women type film scene, which is what she was hoping for. She was in fact going to meet someone far more her style and who was going to show her far more care and respect than dumping and losing her somewhere in the cosmos. Of course, telling someone they’ve been had and that they should move on isn’t as easy as it looks. Providing a service and wanting this lovely young lady who was clearly heartbroken to understand that karma had something far better planned wasn’t going to be an easy task, and of course she was not interested in that and kept asking if it could indeed still be him in her future and not someone new.
It got me thinking about how as loving and needing human beings we are unable to visualise someone new in our lives. When we are hung up on a love and it’s gone ultimately pear shaped we hold on to the vision of that person and the relationship even if, deep down, we know it’s wrong for us.
To imagine the possibility of someone new bringing happiness and contentment appears to be almost impossible at times and I got to wondering if that sometimes stops us from moving on and being open to new opportunities in life
We say mostly No to things when we feel low or rejected, fear and caution and damaged confidence sometimes doesn’t allow us to see the bigger picture and it feels as though life is never going to change and your left wanting and wishing for something that has long moved on. So what about if we say YES to things, open ourselves to opportunities and chance? Does this improve our chances of meeting people who might change our lives, or does karma and fate have a part to play in things… as a psychic I believe it’s both and this is where I guide my clients toward karma and change rather than encourage them to wait around for something that’s never coming back
So this is where the hard task comes in. I am able to see Karmas plan and have the ability to guide people toward a change, however the hard part being is that most people don’t really want change they prefer the life they know and the safety of the predictable. So when having a reading and you predict changes they can sometimes be disappointed they didn’t here that all will be the same in their world or a failing relationship will suddenly get better and everything will be wonderful.
I always ask those I read for to have a little common sense as though they were advising someone else. Most failing relationships are failing for a reason, if you have warning bells then the chances are they’re ringing for a reason. I have had relationships where I’ve ignored those annoying little tinkles telling me this isn’t completely what I hoped for, and this was eventually to my peril.
So what do people look for in a reading? Well after years in this business I have learnt that its mainly what everyone is looking for… for the chance of love, success and happiness, to get there you must embrace the winds of change, the karma and universal forces that guide you, and not hang on to the sinking ship. When I tell people their going down with the sinking ship it’s almost like giving a short swimming lesion in learning to swim away and find a more stable boat to climb onto, however not many are willing to just take the chance and I guess that’s not what they want to hear.
So the next time you have a psychic reading try to be open minded to the possibility of change in your life, if your calling because your relationship isn’t working or the job your have isn’t filling your life with glee be open to the fact that these things may end, but ultimately things have to end for new things to come along and this might be scary but some changes have to happen and its part of life. As I always say if you want to see the rainbows then you have to put up with the rain.
I truly agree with you…. if you are not wanting to know…best not to ask. Sometimes the truth is hard to handle especially when you genuinely feel that where you are is where you should be. Ignoring your gut feelings or the twinges or even the nagging feeling things are not right should be something you heed and pay attention to.
Would love to know what you see for me… I am open to the insight.
Thank you so much Dawn
thank you for yourcomments dawn, if you are on the facebook page then i offer free readings each week to winners or you can have a look at our book a reding section x
I have been reading for nearly 30years now since I was young, I remember seeing things from when I was 5 I don’t like to sleep because quite often I dream of things that are about to happen (not nice things) I don;t even know the people that I am seeing then I will see it on the news or meet the person threw a friend. I only ever read for friends or family and don’t charge I have been told I should be.
Because I used to see so many things at night when I was 5 I started white lighting myself for protection, about 7 yrs ago I read about white lightening and it gave me chills because I thought it was something I had invented for myself . I feel, smell, and hear things all the time I try to block seeing them because it does scare me when I turn and suddenly see someone.I don’t know why I wrote this, reaching out I suppose for understanding
debbie charging isnt a crime as long as you are honest with people and accept that sometimes you might get things wrong or cant get the connection, you have to look at this like a service and its your time, what people dont understand is that it can take a lot of effort and energy and the same as doing therapy or any other service people are getting something from you. There are a lot of people who think just because its a gift we shouldnt charge, i agree over charging is wrong but as long as you keep your prices to a resonable amount and offer refunds if it doesnt work its fair. If you would like to email me id be happy to help you with the rest I know how you feel x bethany@bethanystar.co.uk x
Plz help me see wot I’m going thru I’m so confused!!!
Gemma email me at bethany@bethanystar.co.uk
Debbie, I’m so happy reading this as I’ve had psychic intuition and even believe I interacted with a spirit at age 4.. Thro to age 7, yet since then have only had 2 other times wen I’ve dreamt death and the next day I wake and hear of that persons death.. But right now since witnessing a real bad traumatic sad situation and losing a close next door neighbour in an awful way and seeing it all with my 5 yr old little girl, (now 7) ( who has also a very strong sense of death and talks to my deceased neighbour out our front living room window. (Where she was seen dead) but aswel as next door my daughter sits at the stairs talking to ppl who she is openly ok to explain to me who she believes they are and sum times she explains they not Angels yet mammy but they will be and I’m trying to sort everything to go ok for the children she’s got… (Example of a time- One particular time) also my little girl has night terrors and they r always violent and end in death, she gets these sum times often or none for weeks, but wen all goes calm I seem to hear of news so similar to her terrors, it’s frighteningly uneasy to watch her go thro at night.. The last year my feeling of spiritual encounters have reappeared and this is getting to strong to handle, I see, feel ( touched by them) smell them, and both me a and my daughter gets static running thro us in a real uncomfy way, my panic tho is that the presence I get are blacked shadows to start and seem to want to frighten me in any way poss. Im seeming to be feeling there feelings as they approach closer to me and this feels unreal til I get wot feeling it actually is, I’m seriously in a mess atm need to know what, why and how and from sumone who is genuinely in my boat, as this is no joke for me it’s starting to make me so afraid that I’m hardly living and have no one who is open to this to be able to help me, I’m so alone with no clue wot its meant to be given from me or what’s to be done or wits cumin next! Plz help me I’d appreciate it honestly… Xx
I whole heartily agree with you sometime you have to be open to change I know myself that I have sometimes not wanted change but it can be for the best. I think what you do is amazing and just wanted to say thanks x
Thanks kelly 🙂
I had a email reading, Bethany was spot on and the reading gave me comfort 🙂 and she is a lovely woman 🙂 highly recommended 🙂
Thank you Bethany x
Bethany star what can I say she is honest and it’s insane how she knows what she knows. To prove to you all how good she is she was able to mention the names of five out of six of my kids names, mentioned a few things no one else knows, two family members two friends and my grandad!! If that’s not enough she told me something I wish not to share right now but if it’s true and it happens when she says I will be posting again to let everyone know just how extra good she is! I was amazed, shocked, happy, sad, a pure mixture of emotions but felt at ease, she is easy to talk to and you can feel confident in what she is saying and as she talks everything makes sense……thank you again Bethany I will be back in 6-8 months with an update for you! Well worth the £17 telephone reading I had. Don’t believe me I wasn’t a true believer of psychics but since talking to Bethany I now am! Try her you’ll be amazed!
bethany gave Me a email reading and she was amazing she got all my family’s names right and was spot on
Bethany…. your words ring true. Change is not usually a welcomed thing but a very necessary part of life, for if we can not accept change then how are we to grow? I am ready for change… I’ve grown tired of the stagnant ripples in my life. I would welcome your insight and hopefully soon I will be able to request a reading. Thank you for sharing your gift. Blessed Be.. Earth Angel that you are 🙂