I DON’T talk to the dead because nobody really dies!!!

Having been in the industry for many years I’ve been accused of many things, charlatan, preying on the weak or grieving, making money out of people misery, fruit loop, crazy, to name but a few. There are a lot of “anti-psychics” out there people who have the view there is no such thing as religion, psychic ability, or the ability to commune with the dead… they would be correct, in a way. There is a lot of controversy around a Mr Derren Brown proving that he can hypnotise people into actually giving away information and therefore he appears to be psychic but claims no psychic ability at all, the lab tests fail on psychics, holding up the star and the circle cards etc. and no one has ever passed it. I have a theory on why this is based on my own ability

When your dead.. your dead, your body no longer functions and your heart no longer beats there are no impulses to the brain and no one can hear your voice or see you anymore, you are just then a shell, but… you still exist. If we were “only” a body and a random set of impulses and genes then this would be gone.. forever, only to exist in the memories of those we leave behind and the photos that were taken of us. But we are more than this.

We are energy, which for a short time is carried in our bodies, now I can’t tell you why this is, or why we have the body we have or even why we are male or female, what I can tell you is that you are not disconnected from everyone or indeed everything else. You never were, and you never will be. If you believe in god then only god knows why your energy is in your particular body or what that purpose is, but this life most certainly has a purpose of some kind.

When I worked in prisons, I remember walking through the grounds of the prison to the wing about a quarter of a mile across the jail, the moment I walked into the gates I was overcome with a thick and choking sensation, like a black coat over me, this would not leave me until I walked out the other side of the gates at the end of the day. Such was the effect on me of this energy I started to become very angry in general and snappy with everyone, I had a deep seated fear like sensation sitting with me all the time and this in the end lead me to quit the job I couldn’t stand it anymore.

Walking through the prison I could almost hear and taste the sadness and evil of some of the inmates and also there was a sense of hopelessness, like they had lost their purpose in life and their damaged souls were not only behind bars but incarcerated in their own bodies with no way of escape. My job there was to rehabilitate and to support those who had serious addiction issues that had lead them to commit hideous crimes against others, most of these people had committed utterly violent and cruel crime against others however my job wasn’t to judge my job was to find the soul of the person underneath the action and help them heal themselves, figure out what it was about life they were running from and make it less scary

Being a counsellor the ability to empathise is very important and to recognise that we are ALL capable of doing things that are, shall we say, less than pleasant. There was a learning curve in all these men around what makes them who they are and what their purpose is, even committing crime and the impact it had on others was a purpose, my statement used to be, because of you, someone changed. Because of someone else, you have changed to.

Now looking at this from a psychic point of view for a moment, and often briefly I found myself completely at one with these men, there was no him and I there were moments, often in silence when our two worlds collided and I found myself completely understanding this man and all his emotions (all beit sometimes a little mixed up) this wasn’t because he TOLD me things or just that I’m a very understanding person, this was because for a moment we were not separated, we were not two bodies in a room, his energy and my energy became one, and from this I could feel see and hear all he was feeling and a lot of the time this was absolute and utter FEAR.

It did not matter where I came from , my upbringing or my experiences, this was just a moment when there was two souls in one space, and if I listened hard enough I could hear the lightbulbs clicking on as he worked out he was just a scared and lost soul looking for something to make his existence in this body bearable. Sadly often it was mind bending drugs or alcohol. But my job for that moment was done, id shown him there was more to life than avoiding being hurt by others, there was in fact a lot more to this “soul” and if he listened to himself he may find the answer to all his questions. Of course I was paid to do this and I have to say my views were often pooped on by my employers, however this at that time was my purpose, you see, you don’t have ONE purpose, you have many

So how come I don’t talk to the dead? Well nothing really dies, if I am able to connect to someone in a room on that level I can connect to anyone, anywhere, you see I don’t believe we are separate, we are ALL connected. It is our actions that separate us and our choices, but your energy is one, and it is connected with everything around you, your emotions are the same as others, what triggers them may be different and the actions of others lead you to have different reactions to things but your energy is the same. When our bodies die we don’t go someplace, we go everywhere you never leave because you are always here, and always have been. So I am not talking to your nans body I am talking to your nans energy and I can see hear and feel all the things she felt saw and heard we carry those things with us.

The description of the body is easy however the emotions that person felt are more complex and dependant on their actions and the experiences they had is dependent on how easy they are to connect with. So I don’t talk to heaven, there is no other place, there is another dimension beyond what we can see and hear, and that’s what psychic ability is, in this you can go back and see what someone did before and you can move forward and see what someone is going to do, energy is movable and can be transferred forward or back, if you are sensitive to it and you can see what is going to happen.  So it’s no wonder when put in a lab and given cards to guess no one passes the test, there’s nothing to connect with, Derren Brown may be able to astound people with his ability however this is hypnotherapy and mind control, this is a “human” ability and a show from an amazingly talented man. I’m not for one moment doubting his abilities therefore perhaps it is unfair to doubt psychic ability for others, after all it can not be proven or disproven, it’s not supposed to be a scientific experiment, nether is god

If you take a moment to open your mind to this you too can see that you will often feel something around someone or a place and you can’t work out what that is, the uneasy feeling you have around people sometimes? Or the feelings of love and connection you get with someone out of the blue, why do certain people have a connection with you and why don’t others, this is to do with our human selves and how we act or judge things, on a personal level I can connect with some people more than others however my emotions about things are pretty much the same when it comes to experiences, it’s about learning and growing and working out what it is you are supposed to do here, with the time you have, your body is supposed to be for doing physical deed, your energy is just contained there for a while this is what makes you feel things.

We all make mistakes, have a reaction that isn’t always the right thing to do judging by others, but the fact is you are all part of one thing, the universe is massive, and there’s always a second chance to get it right for you. Live learn grow and change, but most of all change others, this is what you are here for, this is why you have the body you do, my job is to guide the soul and help you find the energy inside you, and learn how to use it, and when you have gone from the mortal coil to remind others that you are still here.